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Parents, We Are Too Hard On Ourselves

If you’re a parent who is reading this and you feel like you’re failing, please allow yourself to take a deep breath. I’ll wait… Now, I want you to give yourself some grace. Give yourself some patience and understanding. There…

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How to Have Forced Family Fun

In our family, Kim does most of the planning… groceries, kid schedules, workouts for us, house maintenance, and yard work. She is the best and I really appreciate her for it. So when it comes to family vacations, Kim deserves…

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The Connection Between ADHD & Forgiveness

If you want a master class in forgiveness, marry someone with ADHD. While I am the queen of holding a grudge, Penn couldn’t be more opposite. Don’t get me wrong, Penn gets upset. He isn’t a human golden retriever all…

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The Amazing Race Recap: It’s Phil!

For those of you who have been on this journey of The Amazing Race with us for the past few months, you know we’ve been interviewing as many of our co-contestants as possible. To wrap up these bonus podcast episodes,…

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The Amazing Race Finale Recap

If there was anything more magical than winning The Amazing Race, it was watching our kids watch us win The Amazing Race. When I wasn’t sure if we could even do the show, our daughter Lola took me by the…

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Changing The Stigma of ADHD

For Kim and I, it can be a bit unnerving giving video content over to someone else to edit. It’s led to some nervousness for both of us this year, as we have been contestants on The Amazing Race, a…

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Being a Woman on The Amazing Race

Here’s your daily dose of TMI. If you’re easily offended by the natural things that happen to a woman’s body, save your comments and scroll. A few times we’ve gone onto our Instagram stories and ask if you had any…

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Ep. 6 Recap: The Amazing Race

Hi, my name is Kim. I used to live with anxiety and depression. Now I don’t. I have just fundamentally changed my personality. It’s as simple as that. (Please roll your eyes at those previous statements.) If you watched last…

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Ep. 5 Recap: The Amazing Race

Here’s the thing, I’m not afraid of heights. I’m just afraid of FALLING from high places. There’s a big difference. I’m not a thrill-seeking adrenaline junky. Nothing brings me more joy than just sitting on the couch. (My heart is…

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The Amazing Race: More of Your Questions

You guys. We made it to leg 5 of The Amazing Race that airs tonight at 9pm EST on CBS. While you’d think by the fifth leg of The Race we’d be more comfortable, we had an unprecedented 19 month…

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