| Jul 2019

Our Most Controversial Marriage Advice Ever

Holderness marriage Advice

Last week’s sleeping in separate beds podcast broke a record for the most downloads in a day. You guys had LOTS of feelings regarding going to bed alone. This week, we read some of the extreme for and against comments that we received on Facebook and Instagram.

Marriage Like an Oil Change?

Penn has a great analogy of how marriage is like getting the oil changed for your car. In order to keep your vehicle running smoothly you get scheduled maintenance checks. Those routine visits make sure you catch any hiccups in your system early. Why can’t marriage have regular check-ups? We discuss how important it is to consistently check-in with each other and how we do so.

More Controversial Advice

We are going to blow your mind with some more controversial advice. You don’t have to accept it or try it. What works for us may not work for you, and we know that. Penn and I share our other tips, like the kids don’t come first, that you may or may not agree with. Get our full hot topics list and the reasoning behind each piece of advice by tuning into this week’s episode. 

How to listen…

Libsyn: http://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/10444226

iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/controversial-advice/id1378725018?i=1000444011357

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5sA5MgklmUniymhe5bcYFB?si=8hBEjycaQMy3pB4d77XjYg

Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/holdermess-the-holderness-family-podcast/e/62445478?autoplay=true

Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/m/Drfydpmlmtvpzuingkd5k2vwbni?t=Controversial_Advice-The_Holderness_Family_Podcast

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The Holderness family has been dancing in pajamas and singing during snow days for years — but last year they hit the record button on the camera and published their goofy video on YouTube. Penn, Kim, Lola, and Penn Charles continue to make hilarious videos around tent-pole events and circumstances most families face.