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A Message To Dudes About Our Book

According to market research, men rarely buy into self-help books. It is likely that mostly women have purchased our book so far (and we’re super excited they did!) but I ...

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To My Friends Who Keep Showing Up

When describing me one time, Penn said I made friends much like I enter a cold pool. Some of you jump, cannonball style, right into the deep end. Not me. ...

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10 TV Shows Always Worth a Rewatch

If 2020 had an official sport, it would have been binge-watching. We watched every Marvel movie in storyline order (not release order) and, whew, that was a project. But there’s something ...

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Making Salad Without Lettuce

No offense, but do we not all get a little sick of lettuce? I love a salad, especially in the summer months, but there are only so many ways to vary your greens from spinach to arugula to romaine and…

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Wanting To Want It More

With most couples quarantining together in the last year, you would expect we’d see some sort of baby boom out of this pandemic. I mean, after all, that’s what happens with big winter snowstorms when people are locked in with…

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10 Movie Monologues to Give You All the Feels

I may not remember what I ate for dinner last night, but there’s an entire section of my brain devoted to movie quotes. It’s actually one of the things Penn and I connected on during our first date. We rattled…

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8 Cozy Recipes for Rainy Days

Spring showers not only bring flowers. They can also bring spring doldrums. I’m someone whose moods are very much in tune with the weather. When it’s grey and raining, I can feel a bit down, which means it’s time to…

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Things I’d Rather Do Than Taxes – Sponsored By TaxAct

Ahh, annual taxes… even with the dreaded April 15th deadline pushed back, I always seem to put it off. Though you may know me as someone who is pretty organized and definitely the OCD one in the family, I have…

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Everything needs a tune up from time to time, even

Everything needs a tune up from time to time, even relationships. Learn more about our book - link in the bio! #couplegoals

Penn seems to misplace everything, but with the ne

Penn seems to misplace everything, but with the new SyncUP TRACKER from @tmobile we can finally keep tabs on his always-disappearing laptop bag 😅 #TMobilePartner

Walked into @costco for some chicken and almond mi

Walked into @costco for some chicken and almond milk ... almost walked out with a paddle board (true story). But along the way we spotted our mugs in the book stack. It never stops being weird seeing your face on a book. Thanks for indulging our excitement. And thank you to Costco for believing in our little book.

Last chance for Pajama Academy in our shop! Grab y

Last chance for Pajama Academy in our shop! Grab yours for 25% off (especially if you're mostly still doing life in comfy clothes.) Link in the bio. #sweatpantsforlife

Just finished a virtual 5K for @noteinthepocket wi

Just finished a virtual 5K for @noteinthepocket with my favorite girl. Somehow I picked a route that was entirely uphill (at least it felt that way). @noteinthepocket is an amazing charity doing important work in our community. At a time when so many are in need we’re continuing to look for ways to serve. Tag your favorite charity!

It's Independent Bookstore Day! PC and I are going

It's Independent Bookstore Day! PC and I are going to pick out some of our favorites at our local bookstore to celebrate. Support your favorite local book store too! You can even pick up a copy of our book. Link in the bio. #indiebookstoreday

Everything needs a tune up from time to time, even

Everything needs a tune up from time to time, even relationships. Learn more about our book - link in the bio! #couplegoals

Penn seems to misplace everything, but with the ne

Penn seems to misplace everything, but with the new SyncUP TRACKER from @tmobile we can finally keep tabs on his always-disappearing laptop bag 😅 #TMobilePartner

Walked into @costco for some chicken and almond mi

Walked into @costco for some chicken and almond milk ... almost walked out with a paddle board (true story). But along the way we spotted our mugs in the book stack. It never stops being weird seeing your face on a book. Thanks for indulging our excitement. And thank you to Costco for believing in our little book.