The Honeymoon is Over

Holderness Honeymoon

The honeymoon is over and it’s okay. We bet there are plenty of things that you may love more about your partner even more today than you did when you met. We’re going to prove this to you with an easy exercise. Write down at least 5 things that you love about your partner now that you maybe didn’t appreciate or know when you were dating. What is fueling the fire now? This can be an insightful exercise that helps reconnects you as a couple. We did this exercise and share our list with you on the podcast. 

Things You Learn About Each Other

One of the most beautiful things about relationships is getting to know each other at a deeper level with each passing year. You also experience more highs and lows together. Be warned, what fuels your fire may look a little different than you partner. Let’s just say my list looked completely different than Penn’s list…to a laughable degree.

Light the Fire

Remember, the point of this exercise is to fuel the fire. So, maybe don’t do this exactly the way that I did. Kidding! Be honest about what makes your heart happy – it may be a great pair of legs or a great set of ears for listening. You do you. 

Does this exercise turn into backhanded or passive-aggressive comments? You’ll have to listen to find out! Hope you enjoy this one and be sure to share your (PG-13) lists with us on the social medias. 

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